Out From Under

HA! Too funny!
Only I could never actually send that to a guy. Too cruel. (But if I wanted to, I could order it from here.)
Well, maybe if I’d had sex with him once, and he’d turned out to be a total selfish dork. And then wanted a repeat. Maybe then.
Or there was that guy on [...]

She’s not particularly pretty, but she’s not ugly, either. Just a normal 22-year-old. She’s bright, evidently, with her degree in Women’s Studies, and her continuing education. She’s now in graduate school, studying to be a marriage and family therapist. Not everyone goes to grad school, so that makes her a little more than standard.
She’s 22, [...]

Ah, flirting. One of the best social games out there. It’s a multi-tiered exchange involving the mind as much as — no, more than — the body, with lots of mutual appreciation, suggestion, inneundo, a ton of sexual charge. While the possibility of sex is always in the air, the best flirts enjoy the process [...]

There are as many types of ’sexy’ as their are women. We know that in theory, but we don’t all believe it. It’s too obvious what’s really sexy: she’s young, slim, she’s got big boobs. These days she’s also allowed to have a curvaceous ass — so long as it’s not too big. There are [...]

Are you female? If so, your orgasm is not essential, you know.
Are those fighting words?
If I were hearing those words from my sex partner, they sure as hell would be.
But if they’re coming from a scientist, a female scientist, and she’s talking in evolutionary terms, not relational, not personal? (This post is inspired by her [...]

I love being the very tale end of the baby boom. When I was in my mid thirties, everyone suddenly noticed that you could be sexy at forty. (Well, duh.) A couple of years ago the Globe and Mail offered a few articles under the heading “Foxy 50″. So when I get to my fifties, [...]

Remember that list of states which prohibit (or interfere with) the sale/ownership of vibrators? It’s one shorter, as of last Tuesday, February 12.
In 1979, it became illegal to buy, sell, advertise, or even give or lend sex toys in Texas. (This last gives me some pause. Just which of your stash would you be willing [...]

How to give a cat a bath. Go follow that link, watch the clip, then come back.
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Okay. Been and gone?
Isn’t she just the cutest little thing?
But what exactly is she doing? Besides giving a cat a bath, that is? Because really, that cat-bathing is smoke and mirrors. Is this porn? Is this exploitation? Is it [...]